Alienated Dad: Based on a True Story

I was not allowed to be the proper father to her. I wasn't allowed to be the father she needed. The father, I want to be to her. I just want to be a dad to my daughter. This is my story of the events that took place that Alienated me from my daughter.

A lot is Happening

Sorry for the delay in posting, it has been a CRAZY week, Stephaine just turned one on Monday!

Moving day is approaching  quickly, the next destination is going be AMAZING! I have so blessed to have been offered an opportunity of a lifetime.  I will have more details when I am more settled into my position.

In other news, we were able to reach out to few homeless persons this past week, in our joint effort to assist the homeless persons in our area. My wife and I help a man, who fell off his bike, hit his head, cut his arm. We were able to call 911, get him some much-needed help. I love being able to help those in need, it such an amazing feeling knowing someone was saved because of something so little as a bottle of water.


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Panda love

I found this online thought it was so cute! Then I thought of my Indra and her love for Pandas.


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Sorry for the delay in getting the audio out there, it has been crazy with work and the kids. The struggle is real when you have 3 little ones and one on the way. Now we are getting ready for another season and working the PGA. Throw a concert in there and makes for a busy time. That and when the kids crash I am shortly behind. I will work on it as soon as I can! Thanks for waiting and again will do it as soon as I can, just need quiet and an hour.

Otherwise it has been quiet on my end, just missing my daughter and wondering what she is up to. I want to say I love and miss you and I hope you look for the truth!

good stuff

I have some fun stuff to post but need time to time to get it ready for posting. I went to the county court house and got the audio cd of the restraining order. I downloaded the software and listened to it. It’s great as I listen to it, she says how I was at her house on April 29 at 9:09pm. My lawyer asked 2 times and she repeats herself. Then she finds out about the concert tickets and we were at the Poison concert.  So I decided to add the facebook tags, baby sitter texts, and the guy that got me row 5 tickets of when we got there with our friends.

To top it off she then states that she never contacted me and I never contacted her, why would she I am her Ex. Well that’s even funnier is that if I never contacted her and she never contacted me how could I be at her house?

Give me a week or less, hopefully I can get the audio to post, I need to rerecord it then you be the judge. I especially like when she says but I need this for my other case….Dismissed!

how time passes/update

Seems like forever since I have been on, thinking of my daughter and how she is missing her brothers and sisters. What would it be like if she met them and and if they would help her see what she has  been missing and how she has been lied too.

Well I have been busy and with out my computer, had a back issues and went to a neurologist and going back this Monday hopefully some good news! I still have pain in and numbness in my left arm and tingling in my fingers. Hope to have answers after physical therapy and other tests.

Biggest news is that we went to another doctor and we are expecting another boy in December, so it 2 and 2 in our house hold! We are so excited for our little miracle. We can’t wait to meet him, is he going to be blond hair and blue eyes like the rest or will he be like his sisters with reddish hair then 3 other colors depending on the lighting. Only time will tell.

thank you and re-post!

I wanted to say thanks for the thoughts and re-posts that have been done! Thank you for spreading the word and the truth and keep re-posting my story so everyone can read what I have been through. I hope in the end my daughter will see the truth and not the money that is flashed before her! It kills me knowing that she is so close and there is nothing I can do, except tell her i love and miss her and I will be here when she comes looking for the truth!

I can prove what I have said, CAN YOU?

What Is a Protected Opinion?

If the defendant can prove the statement he or she made was true, the defamation lawsuit ends there. People cannot be punished for speaking the truth, no matter how ugly it may be. Truth is always a defense to a claim of defamation.

Court…slapped with restraining order…..a must read

Ok so on may 11th 2017, my wife and I were in court for a restraining order that my ex had filed. There was a copy sent to the school in fear that I am going to do something. My wife’s was plain and boring, mine had domestic violence and she said I showed up at her house on April 29th at 9:09pm.

Well my lawyer and I went in to the court room we sat there a little bit listed to some people who were definitely in need of help and not filing false reports. So we go up and my lawyer objects to everything and the judge doesn’t  like it and lets her ramble on about my first amendment rights and how I am stalking them and how they fear for their safety and their lives. Finally the judge asks us to step down so he can hear a few more cases. Again there are people who are crying and being threatened and are in real fear for their lives. Its heart breaking what some people have to go through in life, then there’s my ex that makes up stories.

Well we are now called back to the stand and my lawyer once again objects to weak evidence. Finally she says in open court he came to my house at 9:09 pm on April 29th. Then stated it again and how afraid she was, but she offered no police report, no witnesses, no pictures, no nothing other that my truthful blog she wants taken down. Finally the judge has enough and my lawyer tilts a paper toward her and asks if it would be funny if my client and his wife were at a concert that night. So of course we had proof of being at the Poison concert along with photos, facebook posts and texts to the sitter and the couple we went with on this fine night!

SO my lawyer asks for a motion to dismiss which we got without hesitation not before he asks, you never had contact with my client…she said no, has he ever contacted you….she says no, so there has been no contact and you found his blog, and keep reading the posts so that would make you the perpetrator, wouldn’t it? If there has been no contact and you found his blog?

Then the icing on the cake was when she said, I object, I need this for evidence in my case in Missouri……

I just smiled walked out of the court room with my wife, smiled some more, and thought can’t wait to take this to Missouri how it got dismissed and how she lied to the judge just to try to get some evidence on me.

Once again I will only post the truth, I have done my homework, I know that opinions won’t stand up in court but proof will!

SO to all the lawyers in Missouri that are fighting for her thank you for taking her money, I hope you have a nice payday. I know the law and what can and can’t be told and as long as I say the truth I will be fine. I hope she is being honest with you otherwise it will be embarrassing for you and your client.

Erasing Family. org

Last night I had the opportunity to attend a fundraising event for a documentary currently being filmed about “parental alienation” called Erasing Family. At this event, the movie’s director showed rough cuts of some of their filming to date, stories told by targeted parents and by their now reunited children. Most powerful were the […]

via Erasing Family — Dr. Craig Childress: Attachment Based “Parental Alienation” (AB-PA)

Living with the alienator

I work with social workers a lot. I also work with CAFCASS (GAL’s for our stateside readers) and I teach and train psychotherapists, psychologists and others in the psychological helping therapies about how to work with alienated children and their families. Most of the people I work with are aware of parental alienation and […]

via Living With The Alienator: Parental Alienation as Coercive Control in Five Easy To Understand Steps — Karen Woodall

One Year Later.

Today is the day that my life was changed forever. Everything was finalized. I still love and miss _________.



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