Alienated Dad: Based on a True Story

I was not allowed to be the proper father to her. I wasn't allowed to be the father she needed. The father, I want to be to her. I just want to be a dad to my daughter. This is my story of the events that took place that Alienated me from my daughter.


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Too True!

One more before I sign off to bed, with a million things going on in my head, got some sweet satisfaction. I was looking at  facebook and discovered a picture of my daughter, Indra. Well I cropped her face and put it next to mine and my kids. And what a match, the nose, cheek bones, hair all a match.

It gives me so much pleasure to know that she got the good genes from my half, or my families  half. There is no denying that she is my blood and I hope her mom realizes that every morning and every night she goes to bed.

familyindrapluskidsThat a piece of paper doesn’t mean anything, its whats in your heart, your soul. It’s about what you think and feel. It’s not about money, gifts or trips that you go on, its the memories from when you were a baby and as far as you can remember. I have the richest life that I can live. I have 4 beautiful kids, 3 at home with me, my 18 month,3 year old and 7 year old that call me daddy and want me to be around all the time. To get hugs and kisses, laughs and smiles when they see me, nothing is more rewarding.

I hope one day Indra will she what she is missing, I may not have money but I have what I need, a beautiful wife, beautiful kids, a roof over my head, good food and great friends that I have made over the past few years.




Heard this song.

“I traveled fifteen hundred miles to see you
I begged you to want me, but you didn’t want to” Kelly Clarkson

This song is about a woman, where her father left her. I found this part to bring tears to my eyes. Because I traveled 1500 miles and Indra didn’t want me. I begged her to come visit me. I begged her to talk to me on the phone.

All I wanted was to be a father.

All I wanted was to be a dad.

All I wanted was to be a friend to my daughter.

A father should be great. I am viewed as a terrible, worthless father, yet I made an EFFORT. I made an effort to call teachers, call girl scouts, the doctors. Have a meeting with teachers at 7 am before my hearings, to hear how wonderful my daughter is. They all couldn’t understand why Indra wouldn’t talk to me. Then I would explain what happen it all made sense to them.

I am nothing but another person to my kid. I hate it, but its what her mother and her mother’s family wanted. ME GONE.

Funny, I am gone. But Indra is going be 18 soon. I hope and pray she will search me out to find where I am at. Maybe I am going be a teacher at her school? Maybe I am going be so close for to be able drive to my house and meet her sisters and brother.

Scary to think I daughter in High School and one that is turning two all in the same year!!! Wow. I am blessed.

Thank you God, for this path. I know you have a plan.

Are you ready to fight?

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Are you Ready to FIGHT?

You have to want to FIGHT.

Know your case! I knew my situation from inside and out.
Have proof. I kept everything, I had calendars with everything from phone calls with Paula to Indra. Put everything related to my case into these Calendars from meetings with teachers, lawyers, court dates, missed visitation, when Paula took Indra to the doctor, dentist, anything and everything related to my daughter were in there!

Printed out everything. (have at least three copies of everything) I still have pdf files of skype records, tax returns, passports, Airline Tickets, Airline letters, the transcripts of my case. Thought it would come in handy for my novel.

You have to want to WIN. Or at least know what kind of win you want. I didn’t win Indra in the end, But I gain so much more. Indra is still a child but when she is an adult at least she can better understand what happen.

Cost is never a problem. Everyone is willing to work with you.

Not in Charlotte? Not a problem, nationwide connections. Worldwide connections as well.

What are you waiting for send an email to Pam tonight! Take back control of your situation!


See you all at the Expo!

International and Domestic Parental Child Abductions

This happens more than people want to realize. Here is a link to the current stats TRAVEL

Recently we were traveling as a family; the TSA person asked my daughter who she was, asked who her brother and sister were. Then the TSA person asked who my wife was to the children. Meanwhile, my son is yelling, MOM, MOM. The TSA person still carried on asking these questions. Why aren’t these questions asked by the airlines when a mother or father is stealing the child?

It was noted on Indra’s plane ticket of the times she missed the plane that her mother told the airline I had issues and that Indra had issues with seeing me. Not even a few weeks later Indra was on a plane to Washington DC then to Demark then to a train to Sweden…. Yet Indra didn’t have an issue flying then? Funny?

I find this to be more true, as I listen to more people’s stories. As I read more stories. At the end of a day, we need to help our fellow men and women.



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Help ME

Dear Indra

Hi Indra,

As your ending your eighth-grade year. I am so very proud of you as a young lady. You are doing great things! Can’t wait to see you in the near future.

Anyways that band you like (BTS) is coming town, wish you could’ve seen them with me.

Hope you see the light as I did!



Gearing up for the BIG fight

Are you in the process of fighting the other to get your child(ren) back?

I want you to know you are not alone. There is hope. 

Keeping fighting. I played the lotto because I felt like I had better chances of winning that than seeing Indra. I did win, like a buck! 😀

No one truly understands until they are in our shoes, fighting day in and day out.

Not knowing when the last phone call is going to be, if this is last time your going hear,”I indrahandschristmas13love
you, dad… I have the greatest Christmas gift ever, still hanging on my wall next to my father’s day gift.

This gift is nothing money could buy me, it’s Indra’s hand prints, in her handwriting, “Indra’s hands Merry Christmas dad Love Indra.”

To most this seems like nothing. Well for me it’s the best I am going to get. Until Indra reaches out to me or until that day I get to watch Indra graduate from High School.

Now, my wife and I are searching for our new to us home. My third home, this time it’s different without my pumpkin running in the door.  Although I get to hear, my three other children run in and out of the door to play in the back yard.

Seem on fitting that my third home be somewhere, “Too Close to Home”

“Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.” Dr. Seuss

Home is where the heart is.

“Home is where the dirt road ends and forever begins.” Alienated Dad

Repeat and repeat to create a false narrative



Isn’t that calling the Pot Black!

Can’t create a false narrative when my name was forged on a Swedish Passport.

Can’t create a false narrative when my marriage certificate says, “Birth Place of Bride, Beirut, Lebanon.”

Can’t create a false narrative when my daughter’s birth certificate says. “Birthplace of Mother, SWEDEN.”

Can’t create a false narrative when I have the recording of phone calls since 2011.

Can’t create a false narrative when Paula calls my mother crying to have my mother pay for a plane ticket days before the end of Christmas visitation. Telling my mother’s voicemail that Indra is not wanted and send her back please! (Give me a break!)

Can’t create a false narrative when the truth is plain as day.

Can’t create a false narrative when the Swedish Embassy and US STATE Department calls my phone asking me questions!

The truth is going to come out. Money can’t buy me. Funny, you think did? Nope, I didn’t walk away over that support orders. I walk away because everyone lied to Indra about me since day one. Indra told me to walk away, that she had replaced me, hated me, and wanted me to die. That’s right it was a false narrative too?

Fatherhood, is a gift from God.

It was stolen from me, the relationship that I had with Indra was stolen the minute, I asked for a divorce, and Paula took my truck to call her family. The same truck Paula keyed that day and told me some kid did it!

My blog making some people mad. Too bad, IT’S my right as an Untied States Citizen to voice my thoughts and feelings. #godblessamerica

Buying a House.

This past week has been so crazy busy with my half days. Trying to get everything ready to buy a house. The guy I am working with told me something funny.

Hey, I saw your old house is up folordhasaplanforindratofindmer Rent when I searched the listing…

I just laughed.
Now in the
process of making the mark, for the next few years. Is scary, scary of the unknown.

I rest knowing that almost a year later, I am happier than ever. We are in a better place, the Lord gave me this new platform to have a voice. He gave the perfect place to start this voice.

Parise the Lord for this journey!


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